Nephesh

The Hebrew word Nephesh means "soul, life or self", the plural of which is Nepheshim. Your Nephesh is your essence, that part of you that is most you. Your Nephesh is something you hide from outsiders but share with those who are closest to you. This blog is a place where Nepheshim can gather and commune.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Pam and Jeff recommended a book to me called

The Irresistable Revolution: Living as an Ordinary Radical
by Shane Claiborne


I found where to order it, because it is not available through amazon, etc. I kno wthey ordered it through Barnes and Noble, but the website of the author recommends Powell's books or the local bookstore through which they distribute it. I heard this guy speak at Mars Hill and what they are doing in the community in which he lives is truly amazing!

http://www.thesimpleway.org/shane/book.html

"We are the simple way, a community of faith.

Each of us is created for community, and in the image of community. And yet everything in the world tried to rob us of this Divine gift.

The life of the simple way is the story of that struggle to love and to be loved.

The most radical thing we do is choose to love each other... again and again.

If you are a seeker of the Way, may our story feed you hope... or at least keep you from making all the same mistakes.

"Life in community is no less than a necessity for us, an inescapable 'must'... all life created by God exists in communal order and works toward community." -- Eberhard Arnold"


Reverends Wendy and Kyle Haack, Sunday October 8, 2006



Wendy and Kyle Haack greeting people after the ordination service




Wendy Haack was (finally) ordained a bit over a week ago in Zeeland, Michigan. Congratulations Wendy on this huge step on the path down which God is taking you!



Here I (Virginia) am with Levi Friday night, October 13. He was so cute!! He would get a little restless, and I would rub his back and hhe would snuggle right up and settle down. Too precious!
congratulations Pam, Jeff and Jenna!


Here is Levi King at just under 3 days old. Born tuesday October 10.

Thursday, September 21, 2006


Gini, thanks for reminding us of this blog. Here is a picture of our nephew Carter Jon Haack just eight hours after he was born. Pretty exciting!

Tuesday, September 19, 2006



Well, I hope you are all doing well. Congratulations to Kyle & Wendy on becoming an aunt and uncle, and to Nate and Sally who are now a mom and dad!

Nicole, it was great to see you a few weekends ago, and Pam, thanks for taking the time to hang out with us during our surprise visit Sunday.

I am now working at a company called Public Policy Associates, Inc (www.publicpolicy.com) in downtown Lansing. So far, great people and it pays the bills, so I am not complaining.

God is using it more importantly to teach me more about trusting him, really, at a deep level even when the circumstances in life do not feel or seem anywhere on the path for the vision He has given you of Him or for your life. He is also teaching me about the deep power of praise, not just inspite of circumstances, but because of them. Refer to a little book called Prison to Praise written in the 1970s. It is simple and small, but God really used it to hit deep in my heart. Also, I am learning more about contentment. I am not content because of my circumstances right now and learning that I need to grow deeper and closer to God to be so. A useful resource for that for me right now is a series by Graham Cooke, a British pastor, called, I think, Living Your Destiny. http://grahamcooke.com/

Wednesday, April 26, 2006


New babies are "springing"up everywhere....here is one who we all know at least via her parents: Adison Marie was born yesturday (April 25, 2006) at 4:12 p.m. and is as healthy as can be. She weighed 8 lbs, 11 oz and 21 1/2 inches long.
Her proud mom (Amy) and Dad (Matt) are with her...and apparently sister (Kalie, 4 this year) and Ethan (2 this year) are thrilled to have a baby sister.

Monday, April 03, 2006

I would love to continue a discussion we have had in person at different times regarding "ethical" or "responsible" consumerism...Here are a few websites and some thoughts from one...look forward to hearing back...

http://www.responsibleshopper.org/

http://www.mrandersen.com/2consumers/responsible_consumer.pdf

http://www.ethicalconsumer.org/philosophy/riserise.htm

http://www.fespinal.com/espinal/english/visua/en116.htm

“For the last 30 years or so, multinational corporations have been trying to shape the decisions of elected governments to fit their vision of a global free market. And whilst governments have in most cases been pretty obliging, it is the ordinary people that buy their products who haven’t been so convinced. The corporate vision of a morally barren future where only the strong survive and where money is the only measure of value, was hardly going to meet with universal acclaim. But the scale of opposition from a new wave of ethical consumers has somewhat taken companies aback.

Survey after survey has shown that it isn’t just a small minority of eccentrics who understand the need for corporate ethics but between 40 and 70% of all consumers. And whilst there is still a very long way to go to translate these good intentions into markets where 70% of all products are sold as ethical, hardly a week goes by without some progress being made.

Of course, most consumers don’t talk in terms of globalisation or international competitiveness, they just boycott products or write angry letters saying I’ve heard your company is cruel to animals or responsible for toxic pollution. And it is on this level, addressing the actual details about the way each product is made that companies have few answers other than to look embarrassed, prevaricate or try to obscure the issues.

The key movers in galvanising consumers to act, and in providing the detail that companies would rather you didn’t know, have been single-issue pressure groups like Greenpeace and PETA1. The animal testing and environmental lobbies which blazed the trail of corporate campaigning in the late 1980s have now been joined by powerful Third World ‘development’ organisations. We are already fast approaching the situation where it is unusual to find a pressure group without some kind of ‘consumer awareness campaign’ aimed at influencing corporate behaviour.

The last piece of the jigsaw is filled by companies which market their products as ethical or green. Many of these ethical marketing claims have been rightly pilloried as cynical or misleading but there is a core of companies whose intentions are genuine. And although there is a huge variety of approaches, from the reluctant multinational displaying an eco-label to an outspoken campaigner like the Body Shop, each of these companies is in some sense an ally with campaigners in their field. Boundaries are further blurred between campaign groups and companies when Greenpeace promotes eco-fridges or Oxfam markets fair trade products. As a result, campaigners are learning that although it is easy to lambast the self-proclaimed ethical company caught out completing a less than ethical deal, it is better in the long run to focus their energies on those companies - and there are still many - which refuse to accept that ethics have any role to play in the way they run their business.”

Tuesday, March 28, 2006


Hello all. How are you all? Spring is finally starting to try its hand here in Lansing. Josh and I had a great spring break with his family in Florida (yep, we even went to Epcot for a day with all three of his brothers and his parents...I felt like a child again and loved it!) Now we are here, both working and waiting to hear from law schools. The for sure acceptance he has received is at MSU, so we could be right here in the fall. I wanted to share a recent photo of me with my "nephew," Markus Hewes...Maren's son. He is just so cute and so photogenic! I pray for y'all and think of you often and hope things are going well.
Also, some thoughts that relate to part of what God is teaching me right now from Oswald Chambers: "the Holy Spirit reveals to me that God loved me not because I was lovable, but because it was His nature to do so. Now He commands me to show the same love to others by saying, ". . . love one another as I have loved you" ( John 15:12 ). He is saying, "I will bring a number of people around you whom you cannot respect, but you must exhibit My love to them, just as I have exhibited it to you." This kind of love is not a patronizing love for the unlovable— it is His love, and it will not be evidenced in us overnight. Some of us may have tried to force it, but we were soon tired and frustrated.

"The Lord . . . is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish . . ." ( 2 Peter 3:9 ). I should look within and remember how wonderfully He has dealt with me. The knowledge that God has loved me beyond all limits will compel me to go into the world to love others in the same way. I may get irritated because I have to live with an unusually difficult person. But just think how disagreeable I have been with God! Am I prepared to be identified so closely with the Lord Jesus that His life and His sweetness will be continually poured out through Me? Neither natural love nor God’s divine love will remain and grow in me unless it is nurtured. Love is spontaneous, but it has to be maintained through discipline."

Thursday, February 09, 2006


Josh returned from Guatemala three days ago (Monday), and he had an amazing time!!! I am VERY glad to have him home, but am equally glad that he got to go on such a powerful trip. It was a group of all men (24 of them!) who went in the mountains of Guatemala to serve and build houses for Mayan widows and orphans.
Here is a bit of info. about Guatemala:
"The Maya civilization flourished in Guatemala and surrounding regions during the first millennium A.D. After almost three centuries as a Spanish colony, Guatemala won its independence in 1821. During the second half of the 20th century, it experienced a variety of military and civilian governments as well as a 36-year guerrilla war. In 1996, the government signed a peace agreement formally ending the conflict, which had left more than 100,000 people dead and had created some 1 million refugees." http://www.cia.gov/cia/publications/factbook/geos/gt.html

"Between the late 1970s and the mid-1980s, the people of Guatemala were subjected to a state-sponsored campaign of political violence and repression designed to not only defeat a left-wing, revolutionary insurgency but also destroy Mayan communities and culture. The Mayan Indians in the western highlands were labeled by the government as revolutionary sympathizers, and many Mayan women lost husbands, sons, and other family members who were brutally murdered or who simply "disappeared."

Based on years of field research conducted in the rural highlands, Fear as a Way of Life traces the intricate links between the recent political violence and repression and the long-term systemic violence connected with class inequalities and gender and ethnic oppression––the violence of everyday life." http://www.columbia.edu/cu/cup/catalog/data/023110/0231100329.HTM

If you want to read more about the group with which Josh went, it is Extended Hands (www.extendedhands.org). This is the group that Harry, our pastor, runs and of which we showed a video at our wedding reception.